In dying, as in life, her well-known former husband loomed over Ivana Trump’s story.

On Wednesday afternoon, when a funeral was held for Ms. Trump at an Upper East Side Catholic church, former President Donald J. Trump, alongside along with his present spouse, Melania, was there, seated within the entrance row, throughout from their three youngsters: Ivanka, Eric and Donald Jr.

The Trump Organization had dealt with the funeral preparations, and the coffin had a gold hue. The Secret Service stood by.

Outside the church, St. Vincent Ferrer, photographers and about 100 gawkers stood behind barricades. Perhaps the one signal anybody held up mentioned: “PRAYERS AND CONDOLENCES TRUMP FAMILY. GOD BLESS AND PROTECT YOU.”

Inside, the church was lower than half full. There had been loads of Hermès luggage however few boldfaced names from the gilt-covered slice of Manhattan society the couple had inhabited within the Nineteen Eighties and Nineteen Nineties.

Most of the speeches about Ms. Trump, who died final week at 73 inside her residence in New York, centered on her indefatigable drive, formed by rising up in Czechoslovakia behind the Iron Curtain. Those eulogizing her additionally talked concerning the friendship that Ms. Trump and her ex-husband had managed to forge, regardless of the bitter tabloid divorce. (Ms. Trump was married briefly then widowed earlier than her marriage to Mr. Trump, and the 2 husbands who adopted him died earlier than her.)

Her youngsters provided a loving glimpse at her forceful parenting type.

In a speech, her son Eric, 38, described his mom because the embodiment of the American dream, one thing like a mixture of Joan Rivers and Claudia Schiffer, he mentioned.

“She had brains, she had beauty, and she had grit,” he mentioned, happening to claim that she had received the “hearts and minds of every single person in the U.S. on the Home Shopping Network and QVC.”

He added: “She still holds every single sales record. People adored Ivana.”

As a mum or dad, he mentioned, she “ruled with an iron fist and a heart of gold.”

Those two issues had been the topic of a lot of Donald Trump Jr.’s speech, which adopted quickly after.

“In the tumultuous times of the last few years, with all the attacks we faced,” Mr. Trump, 44, mentioned, “she was the first person to call and see if I perhaps wanted, or maybe needed, to move back in with her. That call was simultaneously the sweetest and most emasculating thing ever. And she could do that with the best of them, and usually it was on purpose.”

When he was a small youngster, Mr. Trump mentioned, he went along with his household to the Hamptons. While there, he acted at Gosman’s (Montauk’s best-known seafood spot) in a manner that “exceeded the limits” of everybody’s endurance. His mom, he mentioned, took him to the lavatory and confirmed him “what Eastern European discipline was really all about.”

When it was over, he mentioned, she informed him, “And if you cry, we’re going to come back in here and do this again.”

The youthful Mr. Trump — whose fiancée, the previous Fox News persona Kimberly Guilfoyle, sat throughout the aisle from him — informed one other story about his sister Ivanka destroying a really dear chandelier whereas enjoying in the home with a seashore ball. “Ivanka managed to quickly convince my mother that it was me,” he mentioned.

That time, the “remedy,” as he put it, was a “wooden spoon,” and what made his mom much more irate as she spanked him was his fervent denial of getting performed any position within the misbehavior. “Not only had I broken the chandelier, but now I was also lying to her,” he mentioned.

But by the point she realized he was telling the reality, Mr. Trump mentioned, she was “too tired to deal with Ivanka.”

Ivanka Trump, 40, additionally spoke. Her mom “hated funerals,” she mentioned, tearing up as she talked concerning the “trailblazer, admired by men and women alike” for her “grace and her beauty,” but additionally her enterprise prowess and relentless work ethic.

She was additionally the kind of mom who teased her daughter for leaving a celebration in St.-Tropez at 1 a.m. (“She had stayed till 4”) and chided her for sporting garments that had been too modest. “My miniskirts weren’t mini enough,” she mentioned. (Ms. Trump wore a black gown and pearls to her mom’s funeral.) Ivana’s motto, her daughter mentioned, was “flaunt them while you’ve got them.”

“She taught me to study hard, to work hard, to comport myself with dignity and good manners and to never, ever marry a man with a bad back,” Ms. Trump mentioned. “It took me years to understand the last one.” (Of her daughter’s conversion to Orthodox Judaism and marriage to Jared Kushner, Ms. Trump mentioned, her mom had declared that “Ivanka must really love him if she’s willing to give up lobster.”)

“Now, she’s watching us from above, telling us to dry our eyes, have a good time and dance one more song for her,” Ms. Trump mentioned. “Mom, I love you today, every day.”

The crowd was Park Avenue and fashion-industry-adjacent, although Whitney Robinson, a former editor of Elle Decor who had grow to be pleasant with the elder Ms. Trump in recent times, was within the again and mentioned he had “no idea” who most people there have been.

But they did embrace Paolo Zampolli, the previous modeling agent whom Mr. Trump appointed to the board of trustees on the John F. Kennedy Center for the Performing Arts; Dennis Basso, the style designer whose high-oomph fur designs Ms. Trump favored; Couri Hay, the publicist and gossip columnist; and Jeanine Pirro, the right-wing tv opinion host.

Near the lectern was a poster board of Ms. Trump on the quilt of Vanity Fair in 1992, above the headline “Ivana Be a Star.” One of the audio system would later identify all the opposite magazines whose covers she had graced, amongst them Town & Country and Vogue. But Ms. Trump was residing an more and more solitary life in her remaining years, in line with Marc Bouwer, a designer who dressed her for a few years and who was additionally seated towards the again, sporting a black swimsuit, no shirt and a glittery costume jewellery necklace that he thought Ms. Trump would have favored; she was an unapologetic proponent of pairing pretend jewellery with super-expensive clothes.

“She had been isolated,” Mr. Bouwer continued, in a short interview on the church. “There was a lot of pain, a lot of sadness,” he mentioned, earlier than declining to elaborate on it.

Dorothy Curry, the previous nanny to Ivanka, Donald Jr. and Eric, was maybe probably the most putting speaker. In her two-minute speech, she alluded to that isolation, speaking about how she had been near Ms. Trump by the spring and summer time of her life, after which adopted an autumn and “inevitable winter” of “roses dying” as her former employer’s subject of goals turned a “sinking swamp” of “parasites” who had stored her “afloat” with “illicit dreams and schemes.”

“Ivana, we have reached out to you many, many times, but obviously we didn’t reach out far enough,” she mentioned. “We all basically let go and let God, and now you are totally in God’s hands.”

Mr. Basso, as an alternative, described the nice years. He recalled assembly Ms. Trump in September 1983, when he confirmed his first assortment on the Regency Hotel and he or she went backstage afterward to fulfill him.

“She’s standing there in chocolate brown Gucci,” he mentioned, “and she said: ‘I like you. You’re cute. You’re chubby, but we can fix that.’”

The following day, he mentioned, she arrived at his showroom for an appointment and walked out with an order for seven items, together with an order to “send the bill to the Donald.”

She was, Mr. Basso and others mentioned, a businesswoman who performed an instrumental position adorning the motels and residential buildings her former husband had labored on, amongst them Trump Tower, the Plaza Hotel and the Taj Mahal in Atlantic City. And when he ran for president, she was a full-throated supporter.

Ms. Trump had shared her ex-husband’s starvation for consideration, and it wasn’t straightforward, others mentioned in interviews, when her celeb light and his reignited, first with the tv present “The Apprentice” after which when he turned a profitable presidential candidate. The grownup youngsters she had largely raised turned appendages for him.

Nearly two hours after the funeral started, pallbearers carried the coffin outdoors to a recessional carried out by Christopher Macchio, who additionally sang on the Republican National Convention when the previous president accepted his social gathering’s nomination in 2020. Mr. Trump and his present spouse, Melania, trailed behind the physique, adopted by Ivanka, Eric and Don Jr.

The coffin was positioned in a black hearse bearing the identify of Frank E. Campbell Funeral Home, the place of near-rest for a lot of members of New York’s elite. It was headed subsequent to her ex-husband’s golf course in Bedminster, N.J., the place floor was consecrated so Ms. Trump may have a standard Catholic burial.

It was, in a manner, the previous couple’s remaining joint real-estate deal.