I’ve been pondering

Dear [Name],

I’ve been fascinated about our relationship lots currently. I do know we’ve had some points, and we’ve each been working onerous to repair them. But I’m beginning to assume that perhaps it’s not going to work out. I really feel such as you don’t love me anymore, and I can’t maintain doing this should you’re not prepared to take the time with me.

I wish to know what’s happening in your head proper now—why you appear so distant typically, why you don’t appear as keen on caring for this relationship anymore. Is it as a result of one thing else has come into play? What is it? Because if there’s one thing mistaken between us and also you aren’t prepared to speak about it, then we have to simply finish issues now earlier than they worsen.

I don’t need issues to finish badly between us—removed from it! But if we’re not on the identical web page right here then there’s nothing left for us however heartbreak and remorse. Please don’t let that occur—let’s discuss this face-to-face so we will work out the place issues went mistaken and the way we will repair them!

You are going by means of lots

Dear [name],

I do know that you’re going by means of lots proper now, and I do know that it’s not straightforward. But I must ask you one thing: Do you continue to love me? Because the best way you’ve been performing currently, it feels such as you don’t. And I can’t take that!

I would like us to be higher than this, as a result of we had been as soon as so good collectively. We laughed and beloved and shared every thing with one another—and now it appears like we’re simply present. When did issues get so dangerous between us? When did you cease caring about me? And when did I cease caring about you? Why didn’t both of us discover till now?

I do know that there are some issues between us, but when we work collectively and repair them, then perhaps every thing will probably be okay once more—proper? We can do that!

You love me

Dear [name],

I do know that you just’re individual and that you just love me, however currently it looks like we’ve drifted aside. You was so attentive, however now I really feel such as you don’t care about me anymore. Please inform me what I did mistaken in order that I could make it proper once more.

Dear [name],

I do know we’ve been having some troubles currently, however I would like you to know that I like you and I’ll at all times love you. No matter what occurs in our lives, that may by no means change.

Dear [name],

I don’t know what’s taking place with us, but it surely appears like there’s an enormous wall between us now. I really feel such as you don’t love me anymore. I can’t stand it—and neither are you able to, however for various causes. You maintain saying that you just do, however the best way you act makes me assume in any other case. You’re at all times so distant, so chilly. I’m beginning to assume that perhaps we must always simply break up and transfer on earlier than this will get any worse.

I miss the times

Dear [your name],

I miss the times after we had been so shut. When I knew that you may at all times be counted on to make me really feel protected, and comforted. When I knew that it doesn’t matter what occurred, you’ll be there for me.

But currently it feels such as you don’t care anymore. You don’t inform me how a lot you’re keen on me, and even acknowledge my presence. You don’t present up after I want you most. And it makes me really feel like a idiot for ever believing within the concept of “forever.”

I do know this isn’t fully your fault—it’s not even largely your fault—however I would like us to get again to the place we had been earlier than, as a result of that was so a lot better than this lonely place the place we at the moment are.

Dear [name],

I do know that issues have been tough for us currently. I’d like to speak about it. I do know you’re actually busy with work, so if you wish to do that over the cellphone, that’s high-quality. If not, we will simply discuss it in individual. I’ve been feeling slightly ignored currently. It’s not that I would like extra consideration from you—I simply wish to really feel like we’re on the identical web page emotionally, and that you just’re as invested in our relationship as I’m. It appears like there are issues happening between us that aren’t being communicated or resolved.

So perhaps we may meet someplace and speak?

You’ve been feeling distant

Dear [name],

I do know you’ve been feeling distant currently. I can inform that issues have modified, and I wish to reassure you that irrespective of what’s going on in your life, or how a lot time has handed, I’ll at all times be right here for you. I like you, and I wish to just be sure you comprehend it.

I do know there are lots of issues in your thoughts proper now—work, faculty, household points—and typically it’s onerous to make time for your self when there’s a lot taking place round you on a regular basis. But if there’s one factor we will at all times do collectively, it’s spend time with one another! We want one another greater than ever proper now—and nothing will ever change that.

Dear [your name],

I do know you haven’t been feeling properly currently, and that’s okay. I simply wish to just be sure you know the way a lot I like you, and the way a lot I’m right here for you thru this difficult time.

I don’t assume that our relationship is ideal, but it surely’s the perfect one I’ve ever had. And I’ll at all times be right here for you, it doesn’t matter what occurs.

I really feel such as you don’t love me anymore

Dear [name],

I really feel such as you don’t love me anymore. It’s not that I don’t love you, it’s simply that I really feel like this relationship is over. I do know that whenever you first began relationship, every thing was nice and we had been comfortable collectively, however now issues have modified. We barely spend any time collectively anymore, and after we do spend time collectively, it’s at all times awkward and compelled.

I do know that this may occasionally come as a shock to you. Maybe issues will change once more, perhaps they gained’t. All I ask is that you consider the issues we’ve talked about prior to now—about what we wish out of life and who we wish to be with—and resolve if these issues are nonetheless true for you. If they’re, then please attain out to me so we will discuss how we will make issues work once more. If they aren’t… properly, then perhaps it’s time for us each to maneuver on with our lives and discover somebody who needs those self same issues from life as a lot as we do!

Dear [name],

I simply wish to let you recognize that I really feel such as you don’t love me anymore. I do know it’s not true and that you just nonetheless care about me, however typically it appears like there’s one thing lacking. I don’t know if that is only a part or if we’ve got reached the top of our relationship.

But even when that’s the case, I simply need you to know that I’ll at all times love you and be right here for you it doesn’t matter what occurs between us.

I do know that is onerous for you

Dear [name],

I wish to begin by saying that I nonetheless love you. I do know that is onerous for you, but it surely’s not straightforward for me both. I really feel just like the individual I fell in love with isn’t the identical individual I’m with now. When we first met, you had been so stuffed with ardour and life; now all I see is unhappiness in your eyes.

It’s not that you just don’t care about me anymore—I do know you do. But one thing has modified and it’s affecting our relationship. We used to have the ability to discuss something, however now after we attempt to discuss our issues, it solely makes issues worse.

Please inform me what’s happening in your head so we will determine this out collectively.

I do know that I’ve been onerous to get together with currently, however I wish to guarantee you that my habits has nothing to do with the truth that I don’t love you any extra.

I do know it’s been tough for us to speak currently, however I promise that this isn’t as a result of I don’t care about your emotions or put others’ wants above yours.

I do know it looks like my actions are saying in any other case, however please imagine me after I let you know that my intentions are pure and good.

I’ve seen

Dear [name]:

I’ve seen that you’ve been spending much less time with me and extra time with your pals. When I ask you if I can be part of you, you say that I can’t as a result of it’s only for the blokes. This is just not okay. I don’t care if everybody else thinks it’s okay, as a result of it’s not. You must cease spending a lot time with your pals, particularly when they’re getting collectively with out me. We are presupposed to be a workforce, and we shouldn’t be leaving one another out of issues. If you wish to spend extra time with your pals, then go forward and try this—however don’t go away me out of the plans.