It’s Never Too Late is a sequence about individuals who determine to pursue their desires on their very own phrases.

Nancy Cardwell has made two massive modifications in her life. The first was quitting her job as a top-tier newspaper editor in New York to volunteer for Habitat for Humanity. The second was a bit extra drastic: shifting to Buenos Aires on the age of 62 after falling in love with tango — and a tango dancer by the identify of Luis Gallardo.

Now 75, Ms. Cardwell began at The Wall Street Journal in 1969 and rose by way of the ranks to develop into an assistant managing editor — and the highest-ranking lady on the masthead on the time. But within the late ’80s, she was dropped from the masthead as a part of a broader reshuffling of prime editorial positions and located herself annoyed.

She was getting back from a fishing journey in Montana in 1991 when she obtained off the airplane at La Guardia Airport, which was sweltering and beneath building. “That’s it,” she recalled saying to herself. “I’m out of here.”

She offered her New York condo and moved to Americus, Ga. (inhabitants 15,000), to work for Habitat for Humanity. “You’ve reached the top of your profession,” she remembered telling herself. “You don’t have to prove anything else. If you don’t want to do it anymore, don’t do it.”

She ultimately moved again to the East Coast, settling in Arlington, Va., and began a profession as a contract e book editor. When she was 58, a pal invited her to a tango occasion; she reluctantly went alongside. Within six months, she was taking 5 tango lessons per week. She celebrated her sixtieth birthday with a visit to Buenos Aires, the place she danced tango and practiced Spanish. She returned repeatedly, every journey just a little longer. She would rent a “taxi dancer” — a professional tango dancer who took her to milongas (actually “ballrooms,” although now the time period is synonymous with tango halls) — and keep out dancing till 3 a.m.

One evening, she was approached by Luis, whom she had already observed on the dance flooring. They continued to satisfy and dance at numerous milongas till the top of her journey. He requested her to put in writing to him (he had signed up for an e mail tackle simply to correspond along with her), and in the future, she obtained a message asking when she can be coming again to Argentina. She returned in November, they usually had been mid-dance when he stated to her, “I think you’re going to be one of the great loves of my life.” The subsequent yr, she moved to Argentina. They married in 2014 and now cut up their time between Arlington and Buenos Aires.

They nonetheless dance tango no less than thrice per week.

The following interview has been edited and condensed.

What’s the actual attraction of tango?

Tango is a lead-and-follow dance — it’s like a dialog. It’s intimate, fairly than attractive. I began telling folks lengthy earlier than I met Luis, “I get 90 percent of what I want from a man on the dance floor.” Tango taught me that intimacy didn’t require length. The size of a three-minute tango is sufficient. I discovered later that the Argentines name tango “el amor de tres minutos” (the three-minute love).

How did you’re feeling about being single, earlier than you met Luis?

You’re raised pondering that you can be a pair or be married, however I simply refused to just accept that it was not all proper to be single. My mom principally taught me that happiness is an possibility, and you need to select it. If you don’t like a scenario, you both want to alter the scenario or that you must change how you’re feeling about it, as a result of going by way of life depressing simply doesn’t minimize it.

Did you spend a whole lot of time deliberating the choice to maneuver to Argentina?

I feel the transfer wasn’t scary to me as a result of it didn’t appear to be an enormous deal. I used to be already visiting for growing quantities of time and serious about basing myself there for longer. But Luis made Buenos Aires house to me. He gave me a circle of buddies, household, a standing within the tango group and an understanding of what it’s wish to be an Argentine. Most importantly, he beloved me and made me perceive help and partnership in a means I had by no means skilled.

What’s the important thing to discovering love?

We had been each in superb spots after we met one another. I all the time inform folks I had by no means been happier than I used to be the day earlier than I met him. Not that I’m much less blissful now, however I wasn’t on the lookout for something. I don’t assume romance and relationships all the time deliver happiness, however happiness is what permits them to occur.

Do you assume that issues would have been completely different if this had occurred to you 10 years earlier or 10 years later?

I don’t assume it could have made a distinction. But I feel the older you get, the extra assured you develop into. Not since you get any higher at no matter you had been doing, however you simply get much less involved about what different folks assume. I’m fluent in Spanish, for instance, however I make every kind of errors. Now I do know that my value, my worth, who I’m on the earth, doesn’t come from how nicely I communicate Spanish. And that feeling offers you some freedom to achieve out and do issues that as a youthful individual, you won’t have been prepared to do.

If you had a pal who got here to you and stated, “I’ve taken up tango, I took a trip to Buenos Aires, I met this man, he thinks he’s the best dancer in the world, should I move to Argentina and be with him?” what would you could have stated to her?

I’d in all probability inform her to go for it. There’s a draw back to being single. You miss having the household and associate, that are good issues. I might’ve been blissful to have them, however I didn’t. But there’s an upside to being single, which signifies that you are able to do something that you just wish to do. You don’t have to purchase Reeboks for anyone. You don’t must ship anyone to Harvard. If you’ve obtained the draw back, you may as nicely take the upside.